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#3: INTERNET PERSONALS SITES ARE NO LONGER STIGMATIZED
Another factor that is appealing to women about the internet is the fact that there is no longer a stigma to using it, even for women. Many of these sites have spent MILLIONS of dollars on shaping a woman-friendly image and marketing to women to help them feel that meeting someone through the net is trendy, hip and cool. SO HOW CAN GUYS TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THIS? What GUYS need to understand about meeting a woman online, is that the MEDIUM does not change the REALITY that women want guys who are COOL. They want THE MAN. Just like you can be THE MAN in person, you can also be THE MAN online. |
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You see, we are first motivated by our biological imperatives. This means that whether or not we attach moral *right-ness* or *wrong-ness* to our actions, there are some basic needs that men and women have that have been pre-programmed into our animal circuitry. Monogamy is a fairly recent invention in the scheme of male-female behaviors.
This doesn't mean that we shouldn't aspire to be *faithful,* only that a man's desire for novelty and new-ness often overrides our ability to stay with one person. (Note: Recent surveys have determined that female 'infidelity' is at least as frequent as men's.) |
The secret is that TONS (it’s more than you think) of women, even women who are only half-decently attractive, are actually living the following life:
1. They have a man who is their “boyfriend”/husband. This man satisfies their need for love and bonding. He also often provides gifts, food, and money. 2. They SIMULTANEOUSLY have OTHER men who they fool around with. They do this because THEY KNOW, THEY DAMN WELL KNOW THAT PRACTICALLY NO MEN ON EARTH SUSPECT THE TRUTH that they are doing this, which thereby enables them to easily get AWAY with it. 3. The boyfriend is kept in the dark. It’s easy to keep him in the dark since he cannot believe that she could be capable of being so cold-blooded. |
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